…S/he may have broken up with you without much explanation and You see him or her hanging around with their new bae. Do not hold onto the pain of seeing them together. Don’t let the sight of them erode you.
Find peace in letting their lives move on without you and have yours move on too. Learn to acknowledge your absence in other people’s lives if your presence was a discomfort to them.
Know that life does not stop because you are hurt, it goes on and carries you into your next phase in whatever emotional state that you are in.
You are going to get that job and never enjoy it because you are busy wondering why ‘Thabo is with Sandy or Why Sandy left you for Thuto’. You are going to miss joyful moments of your motherhood or fatherhood because you are preoccupied by you ex’s life. Friends are going to disappear because there is nothing else you talk about except your ex. Every challenge you encounter will seem much bigger than it really is because you are dragging along the hurt from your past- you are going to start thinking you are cursed & nothing is going right.
Opportunists and Parasites are going to invade your life because they leverage on your hurt and neglect of your own peace, they will strip you naked, they will empty your pockets, they will drain your every ounce of energy then leave.
Don’t hold unto that pain of loss,Let it go, find peace in being absent from your ex’s life. Rebuild yourself, renew yourself, Do you. Say hello to new opportunities, open the new doors and windows to your life, let love find you happy, not soaking in the hurt of your past. You have a life to live in exclusion of negativity. New beginnings, clean slate.
Much love ❤️
Kelly
*the names are not in reference to anyone known.
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