Grandmothers, stop silencing your grandchildren when they tell you what their uncles and grandfathers do to them in your absence. Stop convincing your daughters to accept molestation because you are ‘protecting’ the family name.
Stop finding shame in standing up for your children. Your dignity is lost the moment you shush her and request her to live silently with pain.
Mothers stop blaming your daughter for destroying your relationship when she tells you your boyfriend or husband forced himself on her. She is not your competition, you are supposed to be her protector, stop sacrificing your daughter just to maintain a relationship that is toxic. There is no dignity in your act, you become as much guilty as your boyfriend or spouse. If you can’t be trusted with your child, who else can be?
Fathers protect your sons and daughters instead of being their molesters and rapists. You are ruining their lives forever even beyond your death. Don’t take advantage of our trust that you are the primary caregiver, you have no right to violate that child. Have shame.
Families stop being bought off to keep quiet about rape within your compound, that money does not bring peace to that poor child, you are giving the perpetrator freedom to continue damaging that child and other family members.
You enable sexual violence with those shameful efforts of covering up crimes of rape and incest.Dignity comes with standing up for what is right . Change that attitude, you can do better
Much love ❤️
Kelly.
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