I am thinking of you my friend..
You who is swimming in a sea of problems with no solution in sight. Something recently reminded me of this experience.
There are days when life problems seem to just pile up, you move around like you are a magnet to challenges and bad situations, at some point you think “o bati”, you are unlucky and cursed.
Every attempt to finding solutions is a winding road. It’s draining, you live on the brink of giving up.
What you may not know is that every attempt is a step closer to your solution regardless of the negative outcome.
That “No…”, –
That “Sorry We can’t help you”
gives you a chance to find the alternative, it’s having you think beyond your comfort zone, in that process my friend you are gaining tremendous knowledge and experience that is tailored for you—
your survival skills are sharpened and that will have you soar higher than most people, Get back up and keep going.
One step after another..keep going.
Keep doing your best even if it means one thing at a time at a snail pace. Do it.
And you know what…. cry anyway, laugh at that problem , smile and shake your head at the shock of it all, rant about it —-own your emotions and don’t underestimate the control you have over them… just don’t choose destruction, don’t choose to project that pain to others – share it without having everyone run away from you. You need to talk about.
Remember —- with our frustrations, headaches and heartaches time moves, time moves and life goes on…so keep going…in that course you are going to meet someone who will remind you that you are not stuck, s/he is there to rescue you, you will meet someone who will remind you to smile again because life is beyond just pain.
There is a particular second when your problem will be history… a minute you will be living past that challenge/problem….an hour free of burden….days being a winner and a lifetime of wisdom.
Keep going.
Love always ❤️
Kelly
Life Ls 