… dealing with expectations and disappointments

“You are not what I expected,”…

these words can strike a painful chord in your heart but have you ever thought it highlights your uniqueness? How different you are from everyone else..

If that triggers overwhelming disappointment in you, ask yourself how far can you go though fulfilling expectations of other people ?..do you have a limit?

Have you ever felt tied down living to fulfill expectations and bearing discomfort to evade disappointing someone? How much of you do you trust to hold you up when everyone gets dissapointed with you?

Have you ever found yourself following the imposed way of living because that’s all you ve been taught is right, you can never be a disappointment ? …They tell you,”As this tribe/religion/gender/family/proffesion etc “we live only like this “….
.. do you ever think your path can be different from the constructed norm yet fulfilling and nurturing?
What is it about you that beautifully stands out yet not seen? Can you allow yourself to show up and off despite the mocking looks?

Introspection

discoveryourself

youmatter

Love always ❤️. Kelly.

Published by kelly kelapile

A lady interested by various aspects of life. Taken by writing, A Psychiatrist, her passion is around mental health. A mother of 2 bambinos and 6 more.. and other more pending— it’s a sibling ❤️ . A twin sister, intriguing to many- she is the love of my life.

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