Author Archives: kelly kelapile

I am thinking of these mothers, my fellow motherhood passengers ❤️…. The mothers whose kids are labelled ‘mixed veges’ because they are not from the same father.People spew bitter views about you and if you are not careful you sink psychologicallyAfterall who cares about your side of the story when they can make their ownContinue reading “Dear Mothers”

What do you do when you hear rumors that directly affect your life? Or you find out something unexpectedly hurtful for you about your loved ones- either your partner, your family, your friends etc See, rumors are usually bad news with not much validation but so damn painful. On the other hand sudden shocking findingsContinue reading “Handling Rumors and sudden shock..”

Be the girl that learns to filter out noise around you when it gets too loud.Be that girl that learns to listen to self first and embrace spectrum of her emotions Be the decider of who impacts your life and how. Let external influence either balance your stand or add to your life, anything lessContinue reading “My dearest sisters”

In any recovery there is a big pivotal point that helps us leap forward otherwise we remain ‘psychologically disabled’ ….this pivotal point is called ‘Acceptance’ : The Willingness to tolerate a difficult situation and move forward. We have to compare the ‘what was’ and ‘what is’ then find a way to live on with theContinue reading “Acceptance”

May what you saw attractive in me remain vivid even when your rage against me grows within you, May it surpass your blurry view of me when you are angry May the love you felt without me saying anything be strong enough to restrain you from destroying me when I say something you find offensive.Continue reading “Dear Lover”

To the couple that falls in love over & over againTo the couple that work through challenges together and come out with renewed bondsTo the couple that grow together and find more reasons love than partTo the couple that find comfort and contentment in each other , that couple with their own unique love storyContinue reading “…to the lovebirds”

The day you remember that child of yours that you sidelined for so long…that one that you can sleep without thinking about or squander away your money without the guilt of not having made sure she has enough…That one that is hardly talked about when your life blossomsThat child you left in the shadows forContinue reading “Dear Absent Father”

Many of us have at some point heard these words directly or indirectly. Verbally, Written or Signalled—“I don’t want to be with you anymore”. And most of the time that makes us feel like we’ve been left to die 💔.So really a breakup can make us desperate to hang onto a person, Desperate to getContinue reading “Let them Leave”

Sadness does not only come with tears and silence, it can be buried in the loudest laughter and boldest of voices too Sadness does not only come with a frown,It can be hidden behind the most beautiful smile and that welcoming look Sadness does not only come with a feeble greeting, it can be shovedContinue reading “Sadness”

I am thinking of you who feels defeated. I am thinking of you who has tried it all in your power to pull through but as soon as the spark of victory lit up ,the storm came back and blew it off, the darkness engulfed you again.You whose tree of hope you planted got uprootedContinue reading “Dear you, who feels defeated”