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shadowedsorrows Rob & Di PART 17…. the weekend following their wedding, they took a drive out together. Love in the air, you could feel it without asking.Music in the background dedicating songs to each other and sang along..They would look into each other’s eyes and hold hands, reach out to kiss and just dip intoContinue reading “Shadowed Sorrows”

It’s easy to fall for a narcissist, a narcissist is self absorbed, they will make themselves shine infront of you, they tell you how intelligent they are above everyone else, how they can beat everyone else at their game, their love for finer things and how you are going to shine in their presence, theyContinue reading “Falling in the hands of a narcissist”

I ve been thinking a lot about you, ‘the closeted and unaccepted’ My heart breaks for you.Having to live 2 lives in the world that we split for you.One kind of life lived in the world formed by our hostility,forcing you to conform out of fear.and the other life lived in the world that natureContinue reading “Dear you, closeted and unaccepted”

Most women go to the deep end to provide for their children,She makes the kind of sacrifices that puts her near death’s door,the sacrifices that makes her to be the shun of the society.She puts embarrassment aside and digs with her hands to find food beneath the soil,she puts asides social class and adorns onContinue reading “She is doing her best”

Rob and Di PART 16(At the Moonlight Resort) .. “I Rob Mothibi take you Di More to be my wedded wife, to cherish you in love and in friendship, in strength and in weakness, in success and in disappointment, to love you faithfully, today, tomorrow, and for as long as we shall live.”He slid aContinue reading “Shadowed Sorrows”

Rob & Di PART 15 (Di & Rob’s house warming party)….The yard was full of people, music all round, chats & laughs. Rob & Friends braaing meat and some enjoying their drinks.Tobby: Congrats my guy! You ve taken strides to develop yourself.Rob: thanks laitaka! I never thought I would see myself here.Tobby: I see theContinue reading “Shadowed Sorrows”

ROB & Di PART 14 ….Di watched Rob as he disappeared into the loo and reappeared with the test stick. She looked at him, eyes focused on the stick.Di: babe, no suspense ..Rob: it’s supposed to be two lines right? ( acting confused)Di: Yes. (A thin layer of worry creeped in)Rob: uhm ( rubbed hisContinue reading “Shadowed Sorrows”

Rob & Di PART 13 4 months later. …Rob and Di had been attending couple counselling after they arrived back from their vacation in capetown. There was plenty on their plates. The families had started marital negotiations, she had gotten busy with furnishing their new house. They had started brainstorming about their wedding celebrations ItContinue reading “Shadowed Sorrows”

Relationships sometimes end brutally or with loss of a life because of this thing that I am going to mention here. My friends, when you have found out that s/he has cheated, try to limit how much you want to know about it because the other tiny bit of details dug around that issue areContinue reading “You found out but guard yourself too.”

…S/he may have broken up with you without much explanation and You see him or her hanging around with their new bae. Do not hold onto the pain of seeing them together. Don’t let the sight of them erode you. Find peace in letting their lives move on without you and have yours move onContinue reading “Let go”