Celebrating love…

Month of Love… tlogelang pina e “ba tla go huurda’… make it work guys. I am reinforcing connections 😅..

Here is another spice..
Utwang…There are 3 types of intimacy….

  1. Emotional Intimacy
    Be free to open up about your emotions to each other, seek to understand your lover’s emotions without negatively labeling them. Bo “he is such a big baby” ,”she is so nagging “ … is taking away the important connection. Empathy comes in here too. Try.
  2. Intellectual intimacy
    Understand each other’s thought processes without belittling each other’s level of conceptualisation. The magic is to be where you feel understood without cracking your head. Bo “ga o itse skgoa” le “bo it’s too hard for you to understand” that is you closing off intimacy. Mo tlhalosetse.
    The important thing is: Choose wisely. Stop drooling on the outer person only, dig deeper, find common thought flow.
  3. Physical intimacy
    I won’t say much here, this is the most understood 😅. Chemistry. That touch. Your thoughts lead you, your body follows. The important thing is sync with your partner . Be where you know you are free to explore effortlessly without fighting your intuition. Dumalanang.Ga gona bo ‘Tsisa ditsame’. Ga se tsa gago. Treasure and respect each other’s bodies.

Try to balance all these, ratanang batho betsho.

Love always ❤️
Kelly.
I ll check if the spice rack has more 😅.

Published by kelly kelapile

A lady interested by various aspects of life. Taken by writing, A Psychiatrist, her passion is around mental health. A mother of 2 bambinos and 6 more.. and other more pending— it’s a sibling ❤️ . A twin sister, intriguing to many- she is the love of my life.

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