Author Archives: kelly kelapile

When loneliness creeps please remember you are not forgotten

I choose you who is trying to keep it together under this dark cloud I know it’s not easy.To fear for your life everydayTo worry about your family each minuteTo look death in the eye and see it’s scarebut keep going back to fight itTo wonder each day if you have caught it or itContinue reading “I choose you, fight on.”

“why should I forgive myself?E le gore nna ke irile eng?” Well, forgive yourself for the burden of negative thoughts you allow yourself to carry about you, the world and the future. Those thoughts and feelings are processed by you and no one else. That resultant behavior is executed by you, no one does itContinue reading “Forgive you”

For some it’s not that they haven’t found love, love found them but they continue running a marathon away from it because they have mistaken the ‘like’ they found for ‘love’ , they think the ‘lie and shadow’ that found them is the ‘absolute truth and reflection of love’ or they do not know whatContinue reading “Happy Valentine’s Day”

May I crush on the women today…❤️🥰You know what my ladies… You are beautiful and sexy🥰, and don’t let them define your sexy…the fact that you are feminine is sexy enough… …..love your body, no matter the size…… with its scars,the stripes, the curves and the folds… it is yours, you define your contentment withContinue reading “You are beautiful and Sexy”

Month of Love… tlogelang pina e “ba tla go huurda’… make it work guys. I am reinforcing connections 😅.. Here is another spice..Utwang…There are 3 types of intimacy…. Emotional IntimacyBe free to open up about your emotions to each other, seek to understand your lover’s emotions without negatively labeling them. Bo “he is such aContinue reading “Celebrating love…”

It’s the month of love. Ratanang batho le lese go opela “ ba tla go huurda”..😅.. you are pouring water on the magic! Anyway, let me sprinkle some spice for you. Here are some Relo Boosters…make it work guys… They are called the…..5As…… Acknowledgement: Recognise him/her and the position they hold in your life. MakeContinue reading “Happy Month of love”

I am thinking of you my friend.. You who is swimming in a sea of problems with no solution in sight. Something recently reminded me of this experience.There are days when life problems seem to just pile up, you move around like you are a magnet to challenges and bad situations, at some point youContinue reading “My Dear, Keep going.”

This year I learnt of a somehow lonely festive season, of a holiday where you rather feast on photos of others celebrating with their families while yours is far from reach,I know you eventually get tired of smiling at every photo that reminds you of how further away you are, that reminds you of yourContinue reading “To you who feels alone”

Intro:Have you ever been held hostage by people you thought cared? Your family, your partner/spouse, your friends, your colleagues or bosses.Those people you get concerned about but don’t allow progress of any kind in your life. For instance;Families may build a wall around you so that you fail to notice what the world outside holdsContinue reading “Hostage Situation”